314: My Story- Parenting & Domestic Violence with Paige Flink
Shownotes:
00:08 Intro
03:15 Content Warning
05:18 Meet Paige
08:04 Domestic Violence Impacts on Parenting
11:15 Co-Parenting & Domestic Violence
18:49 Being Honest With Self & Children
23:20 Secrecy
24:05 Trauma Informed Care
31:10 Respect & Trusting Relationships
35:38 On The Other Side is Joy
37:29 The Family Place
46:00 Men & What They Think They Have To Be
53:45 Alison’s Letter/Blessing
Mentioned Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 | 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
Local Domestic Violence Hotline: 540-373-9373 | Toll Free: 1-877-734-7238
Local Domestic Violence Shelter: http://www.empowerhouseva.org/
How to Find Paige:
IG: @paigeflink
Website: familyplace.org
FB: @thefamilyplace
Dragonfly Yoga Studio
Episode 305: My Story- Domestic Violence with Julie Owens
Show Notes:
00:10 Introduction
03:01 About Julie
06:25 Conversation With Julie
08:05 Alison’s Confusing Dynamic
09:28 Julie’s Story
17:44 Desire for Control
23:10 When You’re Connected to Empathy
24:10 Survival Behaviors
25:06 Trauma Bonding
31:30 Trauma Related Guilt
32:30 Safety
38:00 How to Know An Abuser is Changing
41:45 Not All Abusers Are The Same
43:50 Safety Planning
47:30 Accountability
50:27 The Bridge Analogy
52:30 Post Traumatic Growth
53:58 Summary of Conversation
57:30 Content Warning
58:02 Alison’s Letter
Mentioned Resources:
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 | 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft
Trauma & Recovery by Judith Herman
Behavior Checklist